Marc says that he’s thinking of moving to Germany and I ask him, “Isn’t your roommate from Germany?”  He says yes and explains how his roommate is moving home to Germany and Marc figured he would go with him since he knows some German.  I ask him if he’s gay and assure him that it’s okay if he is.  He shamefully admits that he is gay and starts to bawl. I pick him up because now he’s turned into a pug dog and reassure him that everything’s okay, I still love him, and that nothing he says or does will ever change how I feel about him.